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Struggling with Intimacy: A Woman’s Heartfelt Confession

Dear Readers,

I have been in a marriage for over four years now, and I feel compelled to share my story. When I first met my husband, there was a strong sexual attraction between us. We were adventurous and explored each other’s desires without inhibition. However, after getting married and having children, our intimacy has taken a hit.

My husband, who used to be playful and passionate, has now withdrawn from me. He stopped being physically intimate with me after I got pregnant. Despite my pleas and expressions of need, he has refused to engage in the activities that once brought us joy.

As a result, I have found myself feeling bitter and unfulfilled. I miss the connection we once shared and long for the physical intimacy that has been lacking in our relationship. I have tried to communicate my feelings to my husband, but he has been unresponsive to my needs.

Recently, I confided in a male friend about my struggles, and he offered to help me fulfill my desires. Though I initially hesitated, I eventually gave in to temptation and experienced a moment of pleasure. However, the guilt that followed has left me feeling conflicted and unsure of how to proceed.

I am now at a crossroads, torn between my desire for physical intimacy and my commitment to my marriage. The thought of seeking satisfaction outside of my marriage has crossed my mind, but I am hesitant to take that step.

As I grapple with these conflicting emotions, I am left wondering what the right course of action is. Should I continue to suppress my desires and try to salvage my marriage, or should I seek fulfillment elsewhere?

Thank you for listening to my story.

FG/EB

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