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Dear GhanaWeb,
Being in a marriage where intimacy has become non-existent can be incredibly challenging and emotionally draining. It’s heartbreaking to hear that for almost two years, this woman’s husband has not shown any interest in being intimate with her. The root of this issue seems to stem from a past infidelity incident where the husband was caught cheating with a teenage girl. The betrayal and lack of remorse from the husband have led to a breakdown in their physical relationship.
Despite leaving money for his wife and child, the husband’s refusal to engage in any form of intimacy has left his wife feeling neglected and undesired. Her attempts to seduce him have been met with rejection, further deepening her emotional turmoil. The lack of physical connection has taken a toll on her mental health, leaving her feeling helpless and unfulfilled.
The wife’s contemplation of seeking intimacy outside the marriage is a clear indication of her desperation for affection and validation. However, she rightly acknowledges that two wrongs do not make a right, and she is torn between her desires and her moral values.
It’s evident that communication and trust have broken down in this marriage, leading to a sense of disconnect and loneliness for the wife. The husband’s dismissive attitude towards his wife’s needs and feelings only exacerbates the situation, leaving her feeling isolated and unloved.
It’s crucial for this couple to seek professional help to address the underlying issues in their marriage. Open and honest communication, counseling, and a willingness to work on rebuilding trust and intimacy are essential steps towards healing their relationship. Both parties need to be willing to confront their issues and make an effort to reconnect on a deeper level.
Ultimately, every individual deserves to feel loved, desired, and respected in a relationship. It’s important for this woman to prioritize her emotional well-being and seek the support she needs to navigate through this challenging time. With the right guidance and effort from both sides, there is hope for reconciliation and a renewed sense of intimacy in their marriage.
FG/EB
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