File photo of a worried woman
Dear GhanaWeb,
There is this guy I’ve admired for years, ever since I finished senior high school.
He is a quiet, reserved person who doesn’t talk much, and he is not really into plenty of girls. Fortunately, we’ve been in the same area, so I’ve known him for a while now.
At first, I struggled to get his attention because of how shy and introverted he is. But I kept trying, talking to him whenever I saw him and doing little things here and there.
Eventually, he asked for my number. Oddly enough, he wanted it so he could send me money to buy him honey!
That was the start of us talking more, though I was mostly the one initiating the conversations.
Over time, he started noticing the green flags I was giving him and decided to take things further.
He eventually asked if I was seeing anyone, and when I said no, he proposed to me. And just like that, we began dating.
In the beginning, our relationship was mostly texting with no real, deep conversations. So, I decided to spice things up a bit by being a little flirtatious and saying naughty things to ignite some excitement.
He invited me to his place a few times, but he never made any move or attempt to get physical.
One day, during a phone call, I told him that he shouldn’t feel shy or worried, and that I wasn’t scared of sex. I also made it clear that I don’t believe in waiting until marriage for sex. He just replied with an “okay.”
Last week when I went to visit him, he was wearing a jersey shorts, I saw his manhood jiggling and I was turned on.
I intentionally started seducing him till his mind was drawn closer and he began caressing and kissing me. I was so happy until he brought out his manhood and I became so frightened.
It wasn’t a normal penis I’m used to. I thought it was a snake at the first glance before I second gazed and saw it was his manhood.
It was so big and long, he pulled it out of his shorts like we take snake out of the bag. It was not even hard or standing, it was just looking down and nodding. I shouted and rushed out. When I got home, I realised I shouldn’t have reacted the way I did.
He has since not called me nor answered any of my calls. I know he is angry and has been avoiding me.
I don’t want the relationship anymore, I’m done with him, but I just feel I should apologise for shouting and running away.
Either he is suffering from some disease, or he took some drugs to get that as side effect because what I saw wasn’t normal.
I thank God, I saw it earlier because if he should put it in me, I would have died.
How do I get him to talk to me and listen to my apology? I’m confused and I don’t know what to do now. Should I just ignore him?
I don’t want him to see me as an enemy because we are still in the same neighbourhood. I need help on what to do next.
FG/EB
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