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Dear GhanaWeb,
Going through a breakup is never easy, especially when you’ve invested so much time and emotion into a relationship. It’s understandable to feel hurt, betrayed, and confused when your ex moves on quickly while you’re still trying to heal.
It sounds like you went through a lot with your ex, supporting him through tough times and making sacrifices for the relationship. It’s natural to feel a sense of loss and injustice when you see him thriving with someone else after everything you’ve been through together.
However, it’s important to remember that everyone’s journey is different. Just because your ex is getting married doesn’t mean that he’s found true happiness or that his relationship will be perfect. People often put on a façade of success, but that doesn’t necessarily reflect their true feelings or the reality of their situation.
Instead of focusing on what your ex is doing, try to shift your focus towards yourself and your own healing. It’s okay to feel angry and heartbroken, but holding onto those negative emotions will only weigh you down. Allow yourself to grieve the loss of the relationship, but also take steps towards moving forward and finding your own happiness.
It’s also important to acknowledge that closure may not come from your ex. Ultimately, you have the power to find closure within yourself and let go of the pain and resentment you’re holding onto. It won’t be easy, but with time and self-reflection, you can find peace and acceptance.
Remember, your worth isn’t defined by your past relationships or by what others have done to you. You deserve to be with someone who values and respects you, and who is committed to building a future together. Don’t settle for anything less than you deserve.
Take this time to focus on yourself, your growth, and your own happiness. Surround yourself with supportive friends and family, engage in activities that bring you joy, and prioritize self-care. You are stronger than you think, and you have the resilience to overcome this heartbreak and emerge even stronger.
Stay strong, stay true to yourself, and believe that better things are on the horizon. You deserve love, happiness, and a fulfilling relationship. Trust that the right person will come into your life when the time is right.
With love and support,
FG/EB
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